MORAL VALUES FOR KIDS MUST WATCH

my daughter's teacher once asked me are you joanna's mom and said yes sir and he said joanna is so polite good job mom and was like thank you so much you know what that made me happy that i'm doing good job making my kids to be good citizens in the society so today we are going to look at 10 moral values that you must teach your kids and make them to be responsible citizens in the society hi there welcome to my channel my name is mufon and in this channel talk about raising kids in healthy way so today we are going to talk about moral valleys have you ever heard things like you better use your manners or you were not properly trained or you didn't have home training these statements all boil down to moral values so what are moral values moral values are standards said by the values given to us at an early stage of childhood that helps us choose between right and wrong or good things and bad things these values are mostly passed down from parents or guardians you know that will help shape the beliefs attitude and character of child so today's video have 10 values to share but we'll share five because respect your time please come back for the remaining five in my next video so that you will not miss anything number one honesty for your child to develop honesty you must be honest yourself your children are watching you and will take after you if they see you lying they will think lying is okay and if your child lies to you because the truth is that you don't really teach people how to lie we are sinful in nature if your child likes you sit that child down and communicate the importance of being honest number two manners having good manners is another essential value to teach your child when they have good manners they can better interact with people on daily basis in considerate and thoughtful way the more you practice and use good manners the more your child will as well so teach gratitude as in showing appreciation and being thankful and contented with what you have saying thank you and please for example today trying to put my my daughter into car seat and she said this thank you mama you're welcome my sweetheart girl isn't that sweet mean she's just about to be two and she has so much good manners she says thank you thank you mommy you're welcome she says excuse me when she burps she knows how to greet you know when she sees people at the store she greets everybody mean she's so well mannered so teach gratitude you know teach your child to say thank you and please teach generosity and then teach them how to share teach them to say excuse me and also teach greetings like hi good morning tell my daughter you start conversation with greetings you know sometimes greetings is being seen you know don't understand how people will see you and they will just pass by as if you are invisible mean went to visit nigerian family and this lady had son you know that you know like around nine to ten years old and the boy was just by her side and was wondering am invisible even when was talking with the mother their mother did not even you know do sieve mean understand that maybe she did not realize that that's not right but the boy was just playing game on his phone and you know was just talking to the mother and all the time was talking to the mother the boy did never to say hi ma'am welcome to our house nothing so teach greetings is good to me feel when you say hi to somebody signifies that you have seen the person the person is visible the person is not invisible so one of the things you need to teach them is how to say hi like said told my daughter you start conversation with greetings okay am making sense like the video and subscribe if you haven't already number three respect respect is another vital value to teach your child from very early stage many parents focus so much on respecting their elders they sometimes forget about the rest you know grew up like that that respect only belongs to the elders is only younger person that can respect an elderly person but that's not true tell my daughter you don't respect anybody that don't respect you if you tell somebody no and the person still go ahead and you know disrespect your boundaries you don't have any reason to respect that person so make sure to teach your children to respect everyone no matter what age race religion or status they may be because respect they say is reciprocal so it is important to model respect to your child as parent because grew up believing that it is only child that gives respect to an adult and that an adult can disrespect you to all they care which is not right number four responsibility when teaching values to your child responsibility is one of the top values to include talked about responsibility in my last video will link it up in the description below because like said in that video responsibility was not shared you know in my family as child growing up because it was belief that is only one person one one gender let me just say one gender that can do the work which is girl and the boys can room around and come back and eat but that's not right you don't want to teach your child everything at once when they are ready to go to college start early and help them to be dependable to keep to their commitment and also to be accountable if you do not instill in them sense of responsibility from an early stage they will have harder time in the future and you don't want to raise lazy people in the future so instill responsibility teach them teach them at the early stage there are so many things that my kids can do and am still teaching them and will make sure will teach all of them how to be responsible responsibility is equal to self-care when you take them out to cook their meal they are going to take care of themselves in the future when you teach them how to clean their room make the bed wash the dishes take care of themselves do the laundry you are helping them to become responsible citizens number five love it is very very important to show love to your kids and also to teach them how to love you can never give too much love to child it is one of the basic emotional needs of child so as parent always say love you to your child let your child see your love for them as well as others in your life the more you give and show love the more your child will as well to you also teach your child to love someone for who they are this will also show them respect for others as well love your child as much as you can but don't spoil show love to them and in so doing it will be natural for your child to love you in return so that's it for today like said have 10 values please come back for the next five in the next video because respect your time thank you so much for watching like the video subscribe let me know your thoughts below and how you've been inculcating you know values in your child thank you so much for watching and i'll talk to you next time bye